Happy Birthday Frog Princess!

Leta, Happy First Birthday! You are wonderful froggy goodness in our family. Your smiles and talking and laughing helped us through all the hard stuff. Yes, there is still hard stuff, but your sweetness and warmth helped get through the sleepless nights and tears. Your mother and I love you very much. Chuck loves you, too. We are so glad you are in our family.

It has been a scary, wonderful, emotional and brilliant year. I did not know that I was capable of the emotions I have felt this year. I did not know that parenthood would be so hard and so amazing. Thank you Leta for being here.

There was a time in my life when I never thought I would have children. I can’t imagine not having you in my life, little frog. From the moment I first saw you, I felt right. You have brought such joy and wonder to me. You’re so very smart and so very cute. The boys (or girls) won’t have a chance.

As you have grown this year you are looking less and less like me and more and more like your mother. This is a good thing, as your mother is very beautiful. During the phase where you looked like me, you also reminded a lot of your aunts, uncles and cousins of my father, who passed away long before you were born. You will undoubtedly go through more changing as you grow, but let’s just say that my feelings won’t be hurt one bit if you end up looking more like your mother.

Love,

Dad

P.S. Leta, if you did a search for this and found it, I know it might sound schmaltzy and corny, but the feelings are very real and very deep. You bring a smile to my face every day. Watching you grow this year as been the most wonderful experience. And when you have your children, your mother and I will be there the first little while to help you. We promise. You know that your mother is the real writer in the family, so you should read what she has written, as it will be funnier and have more cute pictures.

  • JenE

    I hope Leta enjoys her first birthday!

  • http://midvaleschool.blogspot.com Courtney

    Happy Birthday, little one! The internets have loved watching you grow.

  • Joana

    Happy Birthday, little frog! You’re really cute!!
    And a good day to daddy too! :)

  • http://www.sweetney.com sweetney

    spoken like a true daddy! happy birthday to leta (again), and much love to all armstrongs.

    also, maybe its just me, but leta so reminds me of mina at that age:
    http://gaughran-perez.com/tracey/pix/mina04.jpg

  • beachgal

    such sweet words from a proud papa. We all know how much you love your little frog. We all feel it, and in our strange, internet way, we all love her, too.

    Happy Birthday Miss Leta!!!

  • http://badgermeetsworld.blogspot.com Badger

    Aw! Sniffle! Happy birthday, Leta! And congrats to mom and dad for making it through that rough first year. It never gets easy, I don’t think, but it does get easiER. And, you know, weirder. In a good way.

  • http://schmutzie.diaryland.com schmutzie

    Just when I’m waffling about having a child or not, you go an throw a wrench into the works.
    Happy Birthday, Leta-frog!

  • http://www.notwellplanned.com adrianne

    Hopefully she doesn’t do the google search around the “sensitive” age of 13, as she may not be so keen on being referred to on the internet as the Frog Princess!
    Your post did bring a little tear to my eye, seriously.

  • Jane’s Mom

    Happy Birthday to Leta!
    Congrats to you and heather for surviving the first year. It only gets better and each new phase is more wonderful than the last.
    jen

  • http://sadandbeautiful.typepad.com Sarah

    What a beautiful letter to your sweet little girl. Thank you for sharing with us, the Internet, even though there are some real jerks out here!

    Leta is lucky to have you and Heather, and you and Heather are lucky to have Leta.

    Congratulations on not only making it through the first year, but for doing it with honesty, humor, and grace.
    And Happy Birthday to that adorable froggie girl!

  • http://www.michellejones.net/onapath Michelle

    “You’re so very smart and so very cute. The boys (or girls) won’t have a chance.”

    What a good dad. Seriously.

  • http://lotsawords.blogspot.com/ wn

    Congratulations Amstrong family and Joyeux Anniversaire Leta-Frog!

  • sab

    You and Heather are both amazing parents. Leta is truly blessed.

    HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY LETA!!!

  • Cristin

    Wonderful letter, Jon. I made the stupid mistake of coming straight here after reading Heather’s newsletter. Jeez, I was already crying!

    DUH!
    ….

    now that I have cleaned up, again, I want to thank you, Jon, for sharing the husband/father perspective with us. The amount of sheer guts you two have about sharing truly inspires me.

    Thanks again. Happy daddyversary!

  • http://www.fish8me.com Ronny

    happy birthday leta. that really is a great picture.

  • http://www.ninotchkabeavers.com Ninotchka

    Awww, Happy Birthday Leta! And Happy BIRTHday to Mom & Dad. :)

  • http://wildrose.rpgraphics.net Lisa

    Happy Birthday, Leta! You are so lucky to have two such wonderful parents as your Mommy and Dady!

    Jon, thank you so much for sharing your persepective of Daddyhood with us. It’s a wonderful thing to see!!

  • http://www.isabelwearsthepants.typepad.com Terri

    This was written perfectly, Jon.

    Happy Birthday, Leta. May you continue to bless your parents as much as they have blessed all of us.

  • http://prettycrabby.com Em

    Ow. That picture just RIPPED my heart out. And I NEED MY HEART.

    Damn you, Armstrongs!

    And Happy Birthday!

    PS. I think you do pretty good at the writing, btw.

  • Kathleen

    Happy Birthday, Leta.

    Jon, the photo you’ve posted really shows how Leta does resemble Heather.

  • jennifer

    Some kids would give anything for a dad willing to be schmaltzy or corny with them (no matter how much they think it embarrasses them). Leta’s a lucky girl to have such loving parents. Please don’t ever stop being schmaltzy or corny with her ;)

    Happy birthday, Leta!!

  • christine

    Pardon me for being maudlin in any way… but, if only my father had been smaltzy with me. Leta will grow up with double her wonderfulness because you are in her life. I’m glad this love is out there.

  • http://nadamasrespira.blogspot.com/ maria

    Happy Birthday, Leta! Feliz CumpleaÒos! diriamos en Mexico. May your years be many and bright and filled with love.

  • michele

    I have to agree with Jennifer- I would love to have a dad like that so don’t ever stop!. I used to have an employee who never missed any of his 3 kids’ school functions, etc. I am still jealous of his kids!! I ended up with a dud who is no more than a sperm donor. Leta you are very very lucky!!!

  • Melinda

    Happy Birthday Leta! Blub-o-Dooce has me teary today with two such lovely letters to such an adorable little girl. I wish the whole Armstrong family another wonderful year together! (If Leta makes the NYT in year one, what shall year two bring? I’m anxious to find out. )