Small World

There is a profile of the fired BYU professor on the Salt Lake Tribune website as well as a story about the firing (or lack of rehiring) on the LDS owned Deseret News. I was just going to link to these, but I think the profiles have stuck with me for a few reasons.

The biggest: I went to the same high school as Mr. Nielsen. He was the studentbody president my freshman year. Nielsen seemed like all the other Mormons in my high school, forthright, considerate, nice and clean. During my time in high school, there was a sizable minority of students who were not Mormon. They were the children of rocket scientists, project managers, chemists, physicists and others who emigrated from all over to build rockets out in the desert for NASA and the U.S. military. This influx of brain power and ideas and people gave me a very different small town Utah experience compared to other towns the size of mine. I was close with a few people who were Mormon, but most of my friends in high school were not Mormon. Seeing how they and their families lived made a lot of the demonization that happened on Sunday easier to discern for what it was: paranoid crap.

I mostly laughed these things off, as my friends weren’t bad people. They helped expose me to normalcy. At least Small Town, U.S.A. normalcy. It should be said that my parents weren’t that censorious, with the exception of Led Zeppelin II, which was destroyed about 38 seconds after my immediately older brother spun “Whole Lotta Love”. We didn’t even make it to “The Lemon Song”. We were Mormon, however, and I believe the cultural divide was a big one in our small town. My mom hired a few of my closest friends to help with her business and this example always seemed to indicate that my parents were trying to make sure their children weren’t heroin users, never mind what religion our friends were.

The weirdness about being closer to Nielsen than I had previously thought is due to three facets. One, he has an adult child, but Nielsen is only a few years older than me. I don’t feel old enough to have adult children. Two, I agree with what he is saying, even though our experience growing up Mormon was markedly different and I’m out of the religion. Three, I’m still in shock that we went to the same high school. I would have never pegged him as a person who would choose to make a public stand like this. I’m compelled by how he’s changed. “Good” Mormons don’t challenge authority, especially not church authority. You can hear Nielsen talk about this here. Nielsen does a nice job of framing his views. The people who commented previously (this one, this one and this one) might do well to listen to this to get a picture of Nielsen that doesn’t come across in the news stories. It’s also of interest to those who might wonder how some Mormons think about God, gays and eternity. It’s not an easy listen and I’m not talking about the accents.

I think Nielsen is mostly comfortable in the church, and his points of contention with the LDS church are politcal/procedural and not doctrinal. What Nielsen wants is noble, but will never happen given the autocratic hierarchy of ultra-conservative leaders in the LDS church. I think this will hurt the church in the long run. Being less than honest about membership, growth rates or polygamy will only continue to hurt the church from within and without.

One example is that in the 1980s, a Baptist wrote a paper that has become so quoted by the media and by members in the church. It states that if growth rates continue as they had been, the LDS Church would be the fastest growing church in the world. This is rarely disputed and is stated as fact. I think it’s not a true statement. It propagates due to lazy journalism and because the LDS Church is very private about its real growth and activity rates. I would put the real activity rate at about 30% of total membership, maybe less. I decided to spend a few minutes searching online. Islam is likely the fastest, although I did find a site proclaiming that Wicca was the fastest growing religion (the info is down the page a bit) in the world based on a two year sample of growth rate.

I agree Nielsen is dead right in his expression that the real membership numbers are likely lower than publicly reported. Ask any former missionary about retention of those they baptize. The numbers don’t hold up even to anecdotal scrutiny in my experience, and it would be interesting to know the real number of active members in the LDS church. Sidebar: As a missionary for the church, I disagreed violently with the “chuck them in” philosophy prevalent during my time of service. It cost me in terms of leadership position and reputation, but I felt it extraordinarily short term thinking and asking people to make such a huge life change should take longer than 4–6 weeks. I felt that if we really cared about people, we’d have handled things much differently. I believe this thinking would be born out if true membership numbers were released.

All of the Mormon stuff aside, I think I need to state clearly that any organization would do well to have people like Nielsen among them. It’s sad that BYU and some members of the LDS Church feel differently. Nielsen is a strong person and deserves admiration for his stand. Even if you disagree with him. He’s made a brave stand. Not just as a Mormon, but as an American.

  • http://plazajen.blogspot.com/ Jennifer in Kansas City

    Boy, one person’s questions are equated to weakening the church? He’s one powerful dude.… I would hope anyone, regardless of faith or allegiance, would have more strength in their beliefs and faith, and would welcome questions as an opportunity to either stand strong or hey — realize there’s a better way? I always get nervous when someone asks a question and the response is delivered as though they were threatened. Hope the good prof finds work & peace — isn’t the process of questioning inherent in his job????

  • http://wellbehavedwomen.blogspot.com LucyArin

    Hi Jon–
    What does the LDS church think of women preaching? I ask because I saw an AP article in my local rag on Sunday about Catholics ordaining women into the priesthood. I’m catholic, 30, and never thought I’d see it in my lifetime. (http://​www​.womenpriests​.org) Of course the vatican does not recognize them as priests.…sigh.

  • http://www.dailymumps.com/ Dave Thomas

    He seems like a nice and thoughtful guy, and not a dope. And I agree with his thoughts about questioning and doubting the leaders of his church, and I’m happy that he did what he did.

    The only thing I ever said about him was that I wasn’t impressed by the presentation of his arguments in the original editorial. I’m still not.

    I also suggested that he shouldn’t have been surprised by the fallout. According to these post-mortem interviews, he wasn’t.

    At any rate, thanks for giving us a more detailed peek into the person.

  • Jenn Bo

    I’m part of the Class of 1990 from the same school. I never really thought about the demographic being so different than other Utah towns of similar size. I think you make a good point. Of course, I lived in the little town 4 miles away (with a reservoir). If you weren’t Mormon, the rest of the town included that tidbit of info. You know, “ABC’s old house that where the “non-members” XYZ live.” I was sent to St. Ann’s elementary in SLC (which probably made my Mormon mom the talk of all the other Mormon moms), so that helped broaden my view of religion and the world.

    An earlier post asked about women and the priesthood within the mormon church; non-existent, although I had a really peculiar relative (step-aunt Mormon) who seemed to think she could call on the spirit of Christ to cast out spirits even though she didn’t have the Mormon priesthood.

  • http://perfectpeacefarm.blogspot.com gordon

    I have always wondered about why the Baptists are so vindictive against LDS (to be fair they are vindictive against the Kingdom Hall people too and I am sure they would be vindictive against the Presbetyerians (sp,) if they had the time). I know one Baptist who told me he seeks out the Mormons at a local McDonalds just so he can start an argument. We may have different beliefs than LDS, but come on man…too much hate in the world already.

    I am a member of a Baptist church (yes the SBC), but I was rasied Presbetyerian USA (and I still can’t spell it!) I have thought about objecting several times to SBC doctrine and raising questions, but generally have stayed silent, for two reasons. A) Most of the members, like LDS members are very very nice people. B) I can always find another church

  • http://www.dailymumps.com/ Dave Thomas

    Okay. I just finished the whole radio interview, and now I’m sorry I said that snotty thing about not wanting him to teach my kids philosophy. First of all, who am I kidding–my kids will be too busy assistant managing fast food franchises to study philosophy. And also, he really seems like a thoughtful, open-minded, humble and probably very good person. So screw me.

  • nobody

    Wby are you calling me out? I didn’t say anything about the man. I thought he made a bad argument, but so what? It’s one argument more than BYU put up against him, and I’d say on that basis alone he wins this round.

    But just because he showed that BYU is afraid to come out and actually, you know, reason, doesn’t mean his arguments are any good to begin with.

  • http://aredeaf.blogspot.com Coelecanth

    I’m really enjoying this discussion, lots of stuff to think about, but I wonder just how skewed my perception of Mormanism is. Or, I should sat “is becoming”. There are so few Mormans in these parts that the only thing I know about them was the rumour that they make good roomates.

    Even if a comment thread isn’t the best way to learn about what is essentially a different culture, it’s been a good way to see how people view the issues at hand. Thanks folks.

  • Sebastian

    > Nielsen’s wife disagrees with his position and actions, too, he said.

    Now I know he’s a bigger idiot than I thought. (Thanks Blurb!) I predict that as he continues his 15 minutes of fame, he not only loses his church membership but his wife too.

    Sebastian

  • http://rivetergirl.blogspot.com rivetergirl

    I’ve heard the “fact” that “Mormonism is the fastest growing religion” several times, including Krakauer’s book “Under the banner of heaven.” Thank you for reminding me to not take everything I read as fact.

    You’re smart.

  • Sebastian

    “He wants LDS leaders to be more open about the church’s membership numbers, its finances and its history. He wants leaders to more clearly address the church’s past — and future — teachings about polygamy. And he wants LDS temple weddings open to nonmember and non-tithe-paying parents.” –sltrib

    So it’s not just the gay thing or just “Political” issues, it’s pretty much everything.

    “I don’t want to hurt the church or destroy anyone’s faith. I want to do things to strengthen the church.” –Nielsen

    Ah, he fancies himself the One Mighty And Strong to set God’s house in order (D&C 85:7). He needs to go to the back of the line with all the rest of the pretenders.

    My respect for BYU has gone up in that they put up with this fool for so long. (Not that it was that high anyway.)

    Sebastian

  • distracted

    I can’t believe everyone’s overlooking this detail:

    “His current thoughts are found in The Myth of Leadership, a 2004 book he wrote that advocates leaderless organizations and peer-based management.” (Salt Lake Tribune)

    His whole MO seemed to call lots of attention to himself, to generate press. Now I see why. He’s selling something.

  • http://www.blurbomat.com blurb

    distracted, did you listen to the interview??

  • Sebastian

    You mean this book:

    “The book rests on two premises: Real communication can occur only between equals; and secrecy breeds corruption and abuses of power.”

    I’m sure the church shouldn’t read anything into that hypothesis.

    Or maybe this was just his way of trying to get a job interview. I mean he clearly just wants what’s best for the church. He put it all into a book. Clearly the church should see the value of his position and hire him as a consultant, he has trained Fortune 100 companies after all, or perhaps just call him to the Seventy or Twelve.

    Maybe this was just a bad episode of the Apprentice?

    Sebastian

  • http://www.canyonjam.net erat

    Question: who gives a rat’s ass whose religion is growing the fastest?

  • mshel

    Thanks for the interesting listen. I don’t know this man, but I’m proud of him for having the balls to stick with his opinion. Seems like BYU’s loss.

  • http://www.blurbomat.com blurb

    Ok, distracted & Sebastian… what about LDS church leaders who “sell” their books every six months when they speak in front of the faithful? Aren’t they, too selling something? The book that Nielsen is supposedly selling is two years old. Give me a fucking break.

  • distracted

    I stopped by the blurb again tonight to finish listening to Nielson’s radio interview. His letter was obviously not an attempt to drudge up interest in his book. He comes across as the exact opposite of a cheap salesman. A couple points were particularly interesting to me: first, he says that he’s unsure that he did the right thing by writing the letter, and second he was clearly interested in the different points the callers to the program brought up. In my previous comment I implied, not so implicitly, he wrote the letter to draw attention to his book, but it’s clear he was interested in starting an honest dialogue (a worthwhile dialogue in my opinion by the way), but he doesn’t sound exactly thrilled that he did.

    Oh a couple other things I remembered about the interview…he points out several times that the philosophy department alone decided not to renew his contract. He also said that “this is not a conflict.” He spoke his mind, and said the philosophy department was justified in their action (although he didn’t agree with it). This Nielsen is obviously good peeps.

    Jon, you may find the latest issue of Sunstone of interest. It includes a Gay Mormon’s testimony which is very poignant as well as a personl essay called “Irreconcilable Differences” by Emily Pearson, whose father died of complications from HIV and who married a gay man thinking she could “fix” him.

    http://​www​.sunstoneonline​.com/​m​a​g​a​z​i​n​e​/​m​a​g​-​i​s​s​u​e​-​1​41.asp

  • Sebastian

    No, blurb, they aren’t selling something. The church leaders don’t use General Conference every six months to sell their books. They don’t mention them, there’s no 800 number, operators are not standing by. No books signings; no press tours.

    Granted Deseret Book, a subsidiary of the church, may buy commercial time after conference along with all the “food storage” and “travel Israel and Nauvoo” companies. But books are just not a credible source of income for the leaders or the church as a whole. The church operates just fine on donations and the writers were well off before they became church leaders.

    And what is Mr Nielsen selling? He’s selling a lie. He’s apostate and he’s either in denial over it or he’s setting himself up to be the victim when his membership is pulled. Yet another opportunity to sell his superiority, embarrass the church, and plug his book. I heard no humility in his words. He’s a charlatan. And given his flawed reasoning, he’d made a better lawyer than the philosopher he became.

    What are you selling?

    Sebastian

  • nobody

    Sebastian, if Mr. Nielsen’s reasoning is so flawed, why don’t you refute it, rather chuck around vocabulary like “lie” and “apostate”, and talk about motivations of which you cannot possibly have any real knowledge? Your refusal to engage what he’s said has the same effect as BYU’s firing: you both look like you are afraid to actually address what the man says, so you prefer to shut him up.

    I’m sure that there is more to it than what we’ve seen here, but if I used this incidedent as my only information I’d think the LDS and its supporters couldn’t reason their way out of a paper bag.

  • http://www.blurbomat.com blurb

    Sebastian, have you listened to the interview?

  • jcklein

    Back to the question about women preaching and women in the priesthood — and writing as a non-Mormon who did some reading on the subject years ago — I think I remember one of the First Presidents of the last 20–30 years (Benson, maybe?), when asked when an official pronouncement would come on the status of women in the priesthood, replied that it would never come. This was shortly after there was a change to the official position on blacks and the priesthood (as a result of the increasing membership of blacks). I wish I could remember where I read this and find it now. Now, if the First President is God’s prophet on Earth (do I have that right?), then the First President should be receptive to whatever God might want to say and if he is not receptive, then is he really God’s prophet? Asking the obvious, I know.

    As with any organization, the response to challenges depends on the relative power of the person or persons challenging. I remember reading about Christine Meaders Durham (Chief Justice of the Utah Supreme Court and a Mormon) speaking out in favor or equal rights for women during the 80s and the church saying nothing to her (she’s great PR for the church) while less powerful Mormon women saying the same thing were reprimanded (again, is that the right term?). Clearly the church and BYU sees Neilsen as a person that they can squash.

    Again, I’m a non-Mormon writing on this, but Mormonism is a fascinating subject to me. I grew up around many Mormon families, had a few friends convert and come from an interesting religous background myself (raised Christian Scientist — a church with plenty of its own power issues right now). Thanks for the interesting and thought provoking posts.

  • Sebastian

    Yes, blurb, I did listen to all of the interview yesterday. It was both sad and somehow hilarious. (I think you know that feeling.) I feel sorrow and pity for this man who seems to have fallen so far and professes to be ignorant of that fact. He is seriously deluded in his thinking.

    However, I have doubts to his sincerity on this point. There have been too many well publicized who have traveled the road he is on to be ignorant of its destination.

    Sebastian

  • Sebastian

    nobody, Mr. Nielsen said he wouldn’t challenge the church on doctrine in the interview. He refered to at least 3 categories for issues: Doctrinal, Political, and Moral. He wants to effectively define what the church can say and not say and require of its members by putting it into the little box marked doctrine. With what is truly doctrinal he said he won’t dispute. But he feels he should have total freedom with what is political, etc. Sort of a divide and conquer strategy. But let’s examine what’s in that little box he won’t quarrel with.

    “The doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints affirms marriage between a man and a woman, and opposes same-gender unions and any other sexual relations outside of marriage. Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God to fulfill the eternal destiny of His children.” –lds​.org

    The doctrine of the LDS Church is that the only marriage ordained by God is between a man and a woman (D&C 132:15). The doctrine of the church is that any sexual relations outside of a marriage is a sin and second only in seriousness to murder (Alma 39:5). As there is no doctrinal support for same-sex marriage, then the sexual desires and relations between gay people is indeed a very grievous sin.

    So the facts are as a Mormon, that it doesn’t matter why someone is gay. It can be DNA, it can be choice, or anything in-between. Scholars and scientists are free (even at BYU) to do all the research and publication they like on the issue of gayness, it’s origins, history, biology, psychology, legality, etc. That is the gray area. The one thing scholars and scientists can not do is determine it’s moralness. That is the realm of religion. That is the black and white. And every religion is free to determine their own beliefs however they may.

    For the LDS religion, God has spoken through his prophets that it is a sin and therefore regardless of the evidence of science and the popular opinions of the world it will remain a sin until God says differently. Just as adultery, fornication, murder, stealing, lying, etc, etc are all sins. The LDS church is not a democracy. It does not determine its doctrine through conferences, committees, or popular vote. It is not bound by tradition or recognized scripture.

    Is this doctrine backed by scripture? Yes. Do other religions have a differing interpretation of scripture? Yes. Doesn’t matter. The doctrine of the church is as easily established by current modern-day revelation. You can quote scripture all day from the Bible to put forward the argument that homosexuality is not a sin by rejecting Mormon interpretations. Still doesn’t matter. The doctrine of the church today as set by the 15 men called, set apart and sustained as prophets, seers and revelators is that it is a sin.

    Mr. Nielsen explicitly in his manifesto disputes the church doctrine that gay behavior is a sin by citing scientific discovery and the love and mercy God. If He was coherent and just He wouldn’t discriminate against these individuals. What he is failing to recall is that along with the mercy of God is also His justice. The same justice that eliminated perhaps millions of people with the flood. The same justice that eliminated thousands in the cities of Sodom and Gomorra. The same justice that called for death for many of the social ills the world accepts today. God has established in scripture not only His boundless love but also His endless intolerance of sin. He has shown He’s not unwilling to mete out harsh and even lethal judgments for living an immoral life.

    (But let’s just overlook that aspect of God because it hurts our feelings. We’ll ignore all those inconvenient passages they make us uncomfortable in our lives and focus on the positive.)

    Mr. Nielsen believes that scientists will continue to find evidence that gayness is genetic and that the church will find itself in a irrefutable position and by necessity have to change its doctrine. I believe that to be highly unlikely. His err is that he believes that doctrine can be established through science and popular opinion. That is a fallacy and apostate.

    As far as I’m aware, Mr. Nielsen is neither a prophet, seer nor revelator or recognized by the church to speak for the church or God. I believe the church leaders are well aware of the scientific discoveries in this field and also, more importantly, the mind and will of God and they have made clear the doctrine accordingly.

    That is all I have time for right now, but it is enough. Mr. Nielsen did challenge doctrine despite his vain protests to the contrary, so he is a liar. He has rejected official doctrine of the church, so he is apostate.

    Sebastian

  • http://www.eighthourlunch.com Eight Hour Lunch

    Sebastian, ever heard of the logical fallacy called, “Argument from Authority”? Just curious.

    Before you go quoting scriptures and church leaders to defend your position, you might want to establish *why* what they say trumps scientific observation.